If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it.
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Value of parents...
with his 45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow
perched on their window.
The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"
The Son replied "It is a crow".
After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time,
"What is this?"
The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".
After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd
time, What is this?"
At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son's
tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a
crow".
A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time,
"What is this?"
This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep
asking me the same question again and again, although I have
told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to
understand this?"
A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an
old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was
born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page.
When the son read it, the following words were written in the
diary :-
"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa,
when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23
times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a
Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time h e asked me the same
question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel
irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".
While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the
Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all
23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same
question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.
So..
If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at
them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool,
obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your
parents.From today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents
happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little
child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.
They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm
and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today".
Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST
way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no
matter how they behave.
Just think about it.....
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
Interview in Good Manner
- Dress appropriately in simple - comfortable clothes that reflect your personality.
- Avoid wearing new shoes (squeaking noises) and do practice wearing your tie.
- Be punctual - don't be late or even too early.
- Read up about the company - what business they are into, growth trends, diversification etc
- Read your own resume - be sure that you don't have to look into your resume to recall details during the interview.
- Carry extra copies of your resume and testimonials - you never know when you may need them.
- Make sure you know the full name and designation of the person interviewing you.
- Keep your references ready.
- Remember to make a note of your previous or current salary with all its components.
- Make a good first impression.
- Wish the interviewer(s) cheerfully and with a smile.
- A firm handshake is an indicator of how you are feeling. If you are a lady, then some male employers might not make the first move, but go ahead and initiate the handshake.
- Wait till you are asked to sit down.
- Look the person in the eye.
- Do not appear too nervous or overconfident - Your body language usually conveys more than what you are saying. Don't slouch or lean forward too much.
- Try to curb nervous mannerisms [eg. fidgeting or biting your finger.]
- Appear comfortable, confident and interested in securing the job.
During the interview
- Start the interview with a pleasant smile.
- Always remember to give a firm handshake. If there are women in your interview panel, wait for the other person to extend the hand while shaking hands.
- Listen carefully to what the interviewer is saying.
- Stress on what you can contribute to the organisation.
- Remember that the employer is in control of the interview.
- Don't be too long-winded, say what you want to convey in crisp sentences and use terms that would convey your job & achievements.
- Complete your sentences - don't answer just yes or no.
- What you don't know can be learned, tell them if you don't know something. But give instances of how quick a learner you are.
- Do not boast. People on the other side are shrewd and can generally see through you. At the same time talk about achievements giving due credit to others.
- When talking about yourself and your aspirations, do not sound vague or do not say that you don't know something. You should be very clear and precise about what you want to do, where you want to go etc.
- If you don't understand a question, ask for clarification, don't answer vaguely.
- Don't talk about your personal problems, why you need the job etc.
- Don't get personal, even if you know the interviewer personally.
- Don't be overconfident or too nervous.
- Don't badmouth your previous employer - you could do the same in the case of the prospective customer.
- Don't complain about politics, a bad boss or a poor salary - your reasons for change should be higher responsibilities, location etc.
- If the interviewer is interrupted during the course of the interview, don't pick up papers on his/her desk and read them.
- Don't ask about salary before the offer is made.
- Strike a balance between what you actually are and what you want to be, don't paint a picture of yourself as somebody who is not concerned about money, social status etc.
- Don't be in a hurry to complete the interview.
- Ask questions at the end of the interview, it could be about the company, the job or the next stage of the interview process. It will be an indicator of your interest in the position.
- Send a thank-you letter, outlining your interest in the job and why you are qualified for it.
- Be Positive and Confident - And the Job is yours. Best of Luck!
Perfect Resume
The perfect resume must excel in both content and format. Spruce your resume with these simple, effective tips and you will definitely get those interview calls.
What a resume is not
- It is not a biography.
- It is not a statement of purpose listing your short-term and long-term goals.
- It should not just be a long list of landmarks in your professional career.
Think from a recruiter's point of view
Your potential employer may not have enough time on his or her hands to read a 10-page masterpiece, so ensure your resume does not extend beyond a couple of pages. Leading newspapers have realised not all their readers have the time to read each and every article, which is why you see the present trend of using summary boxes for long-winded articles.
When you draft your resume, think from a recruiter's point of view. Provide information that a prospective employer needs to know and not the kind of information you want him/ her to read.
An oft-quoted line amongst book critics is that Bill Clinton's autobiography, My Life, was a 1,000-page book that had everything in it except what people really wanted to know. Keep this in mind when you are drafting your resume.
The purpose of a resume
A resume or curriculum vitae is a window to you, your personality and your skill sets. Its raison d'etre is to convince a recruiter that you deserve to be called for an interview. It should present you in the best possible light and convince a prospective employer that you can add value to the company.
It should tantalise enough to make an employer pick up the phone and dial your number. Your resume should not simply inform; it should also excite a would-be employer.
The resume can also act as a sample of your skills. If done well, it can show how you can organise a large amount of data in a few words. It can also showcase your skills if you plan to opt for a career in designing, advertising or copywriting.
Summary
Here are points you must definitely include:
i. Experience in your profession
Give valuable insights; for example, if you are in the advertising industry, you could mention the big players and important names you have worked with.
ii. Skills gained in the field
Apart from skills you are expected to gain in your field of work, do highlight skills you may have picked up as extras. For example, if you are a teacher, your expected skills would include your command over the language concerned, the ability to handle students and your knowledge about the subject concerned.
However, if you are also involved in organising workshops for teachers, you can also mention your ability to organise events and liaison effectively.
iii. General skills
This could include interpersonal skills, a knowledge of computers, etc. If you know computer packages apart from MS Office, such as Photoshop and Adobe page maker, and if you know how to make a Powerpoint presentation, do mention it. Many recruiters are on the look out for personnel who can multi-task.
iv. Accomplishments in concrete terms
Mention successful projects that you have handled/ been part of.
Focus on career progression, especially if you have been promoted in a short space of time.
If you have won any award or citation such as Best Employee Of The Month, mention it; this will present you in a positive light.
v. Academic record
Give your record in reverse chronological order, mentioning your most recent qualification first.
Packaging and content
Packaging is as important as content -- both should go hand in hand.
- Your name, address, telephone number and e-mail address should lead your resume.
- The format you use should be consistent. Do not use too many stylistic fonts and don't change the font size too often.
- The first impression is the last impression, so the first few lines must be really impressive. List about three to four major skills and two achievements in the first summary section. The qualities you focus on should be compelling, not generalised.
- Using a job objective as a starting point is a good focal point. Here is an example:
Job objective: Senior-level assignments in the area of logistics and supply chain management in the Office Automation, IT/ Telecom industry in a dynamic organisation. - What a prospective employer really wants to know is what you can do for them. Instead of just listing your achievements, try and tailor your resume to the needs of the company concerned. It may simply mean changing a few lines here and there on a resume you have already created.
- Don't be too humble. You have to sell yourself. Nobody else is going to do it for you. Give concrete achievements. For example, if you increased sales by six percent or created a database of clients, mention it instead of making generalised statements like 'used problem-solving skills' or 'created aggressive marketing strategies' that do not speak of actual results.
- If you have progressed up the ladder in a particular company, you need to point this out. For example, if you joined as a trainee and were then promoted to a managerial level within two years, mention it instead of simply saying you are a manager.
What to avoid - Lousy spellings are a real put-off. Talk about your career prospects instead of your 'carrier' prospects.
- Standardise your language. Use either American English or British English, not a sprinkling of both.
- Don't exaggerate your skills. It may get you the job, but you will have difficulty retaining the post if you cannot deliver.
- Don't talk about unrealistic goals: 'I want to progress from a cub reporter to a reporter independently handling a political beat' is realistic, while 'I aim to be editor of the newspaper soon,' is highly unrealistic.
Happy job hunting!
Monday, July 9, 2007
Famous Quotes By Famous People On "Knowledge"
It is, in fact, nothing short of a miracle that the modern methods of instruction have not entirely strangled the holy curiosity of inquiry.
Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of Truth and Knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods.
The possession of knowledge does not kill the sense of wonder and mystery. There is always more mystery.
We cannot seek or attain health, wealth, learning, justice or kindness in general. Action is always specific, concrete, individualized, unique.
Three passions have governed my life:
The longings for love, the search for knowledge,
And unbearable pity for the suffering of [humankind].
Love brings ecstasy and relieves loneliness.
In the union of love I have seen
In a mystic miniature the prefiguring vision
Of the heavens that saints and poets have imagined.
With equal passion I have sought knowledge.
I have wished to understand the hearts of [people].
I have wished to know why the stars shine.
Love and knowledge led upwards to the heavens,
But always pity brought me back to earth;
Cries of pain reverberated in my heart
Of children in famine, of victims tortured
And of old people left helpless.
I long to alleviate the evil, but I cannot,
And I too suffer.
This has been my life; I found it worth living.
We must learn our limits. We are all something, but none of us are everything.
Now there is one outstandingly important fact regarding Spaceship Earth, and that is that no instruction book came with it.
Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens.
If we value independence, if we are disturbed by the growing conformity of knowledge, of values, of attitudes, which our present system induces, then we may wish to set up conditions of learning which make for uniqueness, for self-direction, and for self-initiated learning.
There was so much handwriting on the wall that even the wall fell down.
There is no squabbling so violent as that between people who accepted an idea yesterday and those who will accept the same idea tomorrow.
The aim of education is the knowledge not of fact, but of values.
The universe is full of magical things, patiently waiting for our wits to grow sharper.
It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows.
Knowing is not enough; we must apply!
The eye sees only what the mind is prepared to comprehend.
It is characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things.
I was determined to know beans. Walden
True friendship can afford true knowledge. It does not depend on darkness and ignorance.
Whosoever wishes to know about the world must learn about it in its particular details.
Knowledge is not intelligence.
In searching for the truth be ready for the unexpected.
Change alone is unchanging.
The same road goes both up and down.
The beginning of a circle is also its end.
Not I, but the world says it: all is one.
And yet everything comes in season.
Science is organized knowledge. Wisdom is organized life.
Science is organized knowledge. Wisdom is organized life.
A popular government without popular information, or the means of acquiring it, is but a prologue to a farce or a tragedy, or perhaps both.
Knowledge will forever govern ignorance; and a people who mean to be their own governors must arm themselves with the power which knowledge gives.
The preservation of the means of knowledge among the lowest ranks is of more importance to the public than all the property of the rich men in the country.
In laying hands upon the sacred ark of absolute permanency, in treating the forms that had been regarded as types of fixity and perfection as originating and passing away, the Origin of Species introduced a mode of thinking that in the end was bound to transform the logic of knowledge, and hence the treatment of morals, politics, and religion.
The Influence of
A little knowledge that acts is worth infinitely more than much knowledge that is idle.
Anyone who conducts an argument by appealing to authority is not using his intelligence; he is just using his memory.
The dumbest people I know are those who know it all.
If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it.
I was brought up to believe that the only thing worth doing was to add to the sum of accurate information in the world.
We have a hunger of the mind which asks for knowledge of all around us, and the more we gain, the more is our desire; the more we see, the more we are capable of seeing.
All schools, all colleges, have two great functions: to confer, and to conceal, valuable knowledge. The theological knowledge which they conceal cannot justly be regarded as less valuable than that which they reveal. That is, when a man is buying a basket of strawberries it can profit him to know that the bottom half of it is rotten.
1908, notebook
Any piece of knowledge I acquire today has a value at this moment exactly proportioned to my skill to deal with it. Tomorrow, when I know more, I recall that piece of knowledge and use it better.
Knowledge is a process of piling up facts; wisdom lies in their simplification.
Education either functions as an instrument which is used to facilitate integration of the younger generation into the logic of the present system and bring about conformity or it becomes the practice of freedom, the means by which men and women deal critically and creatively with reality and discover how to participate in the transformation of their world.
The secret of joy in work is contained in one word - excellence. To know how to do something well is to enjoy it.
Society, community, family are all conserving institutions. They try to maintain stability, and to prevent, or at least to slow down, change. But the organization of the post-capitalist society of organizations is a destabilizer. Because its function is to put knowledge to work -- on tools, processes, and products; on work; on knowledge itself -- it must be organized for constant change.
Bodily exercise, when compulsory, does no harm to the body; but knowledge which is acquired under compulsion obtains no hold on the mind.
Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.
If facts are the seeds that later produce knowledge and wisdom, then the emotions and the impressions of the senses are the fertile soil in which the seeds must grow.
Great are they who see that spiritual is stronger than any material force, that thoughts rule the world.
The first step towards knowledge is to know that we are ignorant.
I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death.
Knowledge is of two kinds: we know a subject ourselves, or we know where we can find information upon it.
I am somehow less interested in the weight and convolutions of Einstein's brain than in the near certainty that people of equal talent have lived and died in cotton fields and sweatshops.
The great end of life is not knowledge but action.
Sit down before fact as a little child, be prepared to give up every preconceived notion, follow humbly wherever or whatever abysses nature leads, or you will learn nothing.
I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma, a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.
The great teachings unanimously emphasize that all the peace, wisdom, and joy in the universe are already within us; we don't have to gain, develop, or attain them. We're like a child standing in a beautiful park with his eyes shut tight. We don't need to imagine trees, flowers, deer, birds, and sky; we merely need to open our eyes and realize what is already here, who we really are -- as soon as we quit pretending we're small or unholy.
These days people seek knowledge, not wisdom. Knowledge is of the past, wisdom is of the future.
Marx, Darwin and Freud are the three most crashing bores of the Western World. Simplistic popularization of their ideas has thrust our world into a mental straitjacket from which we can only escape by the most anarchic violence.
Go to your bosom: Knock there, and ask your heart what it doth know.
It is a wise father that knows his own child.
We know what we are, but know not what we may be.
Famous buildings
"Crooked House"